Father's Day post--- a day late!

Since it has been forever since I last posted anything, it shouldn't be a surprise that I am late on the father's day post. Well, here it goes..

Happy FATHER'S Day!

I have a pretty great dad, actually the best. He's the only one I have so I suppose I don't know the difference but I know I have been lucky to have him. Some of my favorite things about my dad are first, that he can fix anything and everything. If ever I have a problem or concern he knows what to say or makes sure he does whatever is necessary to fix it. I love that about him. Second, I am grateful for our talks. He is smart and gives good advice. He is level headed, patient and has a good perspective on life and I can come to him to get advice or to just get reassurance that I am doing what's right. Third, he puts up with me. This is a big one since I was a rebellious youth but also because I am loud, don't sensor and am a pretty annoying child (even at 26). Fourth and most important, he is a wonderful head of the family. He has always directed our family in the right direction and I feel like I owe a lot of who I am to him. My dad is a pretty amazing Papa as well... Owen especially can't get enough of him. Love you dad!

The next father in my life is my husband. Oh he is an awesome dad!! He reads to his children all the time, plays with them, helps out with all of their physical needs and is the fun parent. He's wise about the ins and outs of life and will instill this quality in our children. He teaches them by example, and also shows them the right things to do. Dan provides everything they could ever need in life and understands their needs as young children. The kids love to meet him when he comes home from school each day and he is always welcomed with open arms and sloppy baby kisses. Dan has an amazing bond with each of our children and they all love him so much.

Next is my grandpa. Since I wasn't around when he was raising kids, I can't say much about that, but I can tell you that he is a great grandpa! I love him so much! He is funny... so funny. Grandpa is always interested in everybody, no matter what. He listens to all the people he meets and enjoys talking with each of them. He's always interested in what is happening in my life and is always as excited to see me as I am him. He's just so fun and I can literally sit for hours with him watching tennis (I am watching Wimbledon as I am typing this by the way) because he loves it as much as I do. He is the grandparent that I have been closest with and I think we have a wonderful bond. Love you grandpa!

(Side note, my Grandpa McPherson died when I was young, but I have heard stories of him and can see the effects of his parenting through my dad. I do know that he was a fun guy, with great integrity and was a very smart/wise man and I love him for raising my dad to be who he is. Specifically, I have one clear memory of him. It was of me dancing with him and him putting me on his feet, I know he loved me).

Another father in our lives is Daniel's dad. Since I am the one writing this, it is my perspective here but I am sure Daniel would have much more to add to this. Brent is a wonderful man. He is incredibly intelligent and helps direct us to make wise decisions as a family. He cares for his family so much... even though he has a job, I think he would MUCH rather just tour the homes of his children and grandchildren more than anything else. He is an amazing grandpa... Ellie especially adores him (that is Ellie in the picture) and talks about him frequently even though we don't see him often enough. I think Brent could watch his grand kids just play all day, but I think his favorite thing is to hold those babies. He's walked circles around the house just holding my newborns. Something specific that I love about Brent is his spontaneity. If he wants something, he just goes and gets it... that is so like me and I think it's great! I love Brent for raising Daniel to be the man he is.

Grandpa Adair is Dan's mom's dad. We were lucky enough to live near them the first year of our marriage and what a blessing that was! Admittedly, we weren't a real social couple in the beginning and much of our social life was spent playing dominoes with Daniel's grandparents. Grandpa Adair is an incredible man. He is so strong in his faith and directs his family with such love. Even though his children have been grown for quite sometime he still talks to his children regularly. I love that! Grandpa Adair is also beyond generous... with his time, his love and his means. Even though he has had some problems physically, Grandpa Adair has such an energetic spirit to him. He draws people in and it's impossible to not love him. I am personally grateful for his willingness to organize family reunions every other year as family closeness is such an important priority to me. We love (and miss) you Grandpa Adair!

Grandpa Weber (pictured with Brent, Daniel and Owen--4 generations of Weber boys) is one of my favorite people. I think this is because he is a bit quiet and I love talking to quiet people and finding out more about them. Sadly, we have only seen Grandpa Weber a handful of times since we have been married (though I think we will see him this weekend and we are beyond excited). I do know that he is a very smart man. Sure, he was in academia for many years, but beyond that, he is life smart. I can tell this by the things he says and the advice he offers and also by the way he observes situations. I know that Grandpa Weber has a strong sense of family and puts family before anything else. When his grandsons lost their mother a couple years back, Grandpa Weber was there to help. Daniel always tells me what a fun grandpa he was to have growing up. I remember at a family reunion six years back when he concocted an apparatus that shoots off bottles! It was a lot of fun! He is amazing at keeping up with genealogy... we love the legacy that he will be leaving behind not only for his grandchildren and great- grandchildren but generations to come. We love you Grandpa Weber!


As you can tell, we are incredibly fortunate for the wonderful examples of fatherhood we have in our lives. We are better for the fathers and grandfathers that we have. Life is about family, and we know this and are thankful for ours.